Friends, rape is one of the heinous crimes that girls and women face in this cruel society nowadays, but unfortunately, the media of our country never covers such news coverage, if they do so they will make it so-called breaking news just for TRP. Through this blog, I aim to provide 30 Proactive Ways to Overcome Rape Culture. But, before going into the 30 ways that I am going to share with you, we have to understand where these thoughts come from in the mind of men and why they do it. Along with this, I will also tell you how you can prevent this type of crime from happening in society, and we must also never forget what we can do for them as responsible and aware human beings. To know stay in tune with me.
What are the Major Causes of Rape?
There could be several Major Causes of Rape that are happening. It can be in different types, such as Acquaintance Rape, Marital Rape, Gang Rape, Date Rape, Statutory Rape, Stranger Rape and the list.Lack Of Knowledge and Awareness
Lack Of Knowledge and Awareness is one of the most common causes of non-consensual sex. Individuals are unaware of their decisions.
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Childhood Trauma
If a boy has experience misbehaviour or maltreatment in his childhood, it impacts their brain and can shape an individual's attitudes and beliefs about sex, power, and relationships.
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1). "As on 31 July 2022, the cumulative pendency of cases in FTSCs and exclusive POCSO courts is 1,93,195" (Sinha. B, 2022, para. 3). According to a report by 'The Print' by Bhadra Sinha: https://theprint.in/judiciary/3-yrs-ago-modi-govt-floated-fast-track-court-scheme-for-rape-pocso-cases-9-states-behind-target/1134696/ (Accessed on April 8, 2023)
2). "If we see a national scenario, according to the figures from National Crime Records Bureau's (NCRB) Crime in India Report 2020, less than 8% of all cases under investigation for rape were found to be 'false'." (Bhat. W, 2022, para. 5). According to a report by 'Ground Report' by Wahid Bhat: https://groundreport.in/false-rape-cases-in-india-8-times-when-women-falsely-accused-men/ (Accessed on April 8, 2023)
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Gender Inequality
Gender Inequality is one of those key factors that contributes to rape and other forms of sexual violence because it creates a power imbalance between men and women. Believe it or not, but it is true that gender inequality plays an important role in promoting rape. Until we do not give equal rights to girls and women as men, we will continue to impose restrictions on them, this process of rape will not stop.
It has been 76 years of independence in India, but it is a matter of great sadness that even after such a long time of independence, gender inequality is still there in our society and this is not only a problem of our country but also of most of the countries around the world. Although there has been some decrease in it, this process is not completely over yet. Instead of limiting the rights of girls, we have to remove these inequalities. Rather, all these are seen more in the slums and rural areas than in the cities.
Societal Norms
Social norms are unwritten rules of behaviour shared by members of a given group or society and attitudes within a particular culture. They can vary widely between different cultures and societies and can be influenced by factors such as history, religion, politics, and economics. However, I believe that Social Norms can have both positive and negative impacts on individuals or communities. Positive societal norms, such as cooperation, respect for diversity, and a sense of shared responsibility for the common good. On the other hand, Negative societal norms, such as harmful stereotypes, discrimination and social exclusion, etc.
Additionally, societal norms that promote victim-blaming and shaming can also contribute to a culture of rape and sexual violence. When survivors of assault are blamed or shamed for their experiences, it sends a message that assault is acceptable or even deserved.
Lack of Trust in the Justice System
Lack of Trust in the Justice System can play a significant role in promoting rape culture. When individuals do not believe that the justice system will provide them with a fair and just outcome, they may be less likely to report incidents of sexual assault or rape. This lack of reporting can create a culture of impunity, where perpetrators of assault are not held accountable for their actions.
In India, poor law management and corruption have led to a distrust of the justice system, and many victims of sexual assault do not feel confident in reporting their experiences. This lack of trust can perpetuate a culture where perpetrators of assault are not held accountable for their actions, and victims may feel powerless to seek justice.
Ultimately, the judgment goes in favour of the criminals as they have power, money and political support. Above all, the blind law of our country is icing on the cake. A long time ago in the Gujrat Riots (Godhara case 2002) a Muslim woman Bilkis Bano was gang-raped when she was 21 years old, 5 months pregnant and she is still seeking justice which is unfortunate.
Overall, societal norms can play a significant role in shaping attitudes and behaviours related to sexual assault. For example, in societies where women are objectified and dehumanized in the media and other cultural messages, it can contribute to a culture that tolerates and excuses rape and assault.
30 Proactive Ways to Overcome Rape Culture
1). Promote Women's Empowerment As Much As Possible
We have to Promote Women's Empowerment As Much As Possible, to eliminate rape culture once and for all from the root. Because promoting women's empowerment can play a significant role in a number of ways that I'm going to describe here one by one, such as:"Video Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hr4pCjkAanY "
However, it's a bitter truth that this isn't happening on a large scale, but it cannot be denied that today girls are not only bringing laurels to their parents but also to this country.2). Learn Martial Arts and Other Self-Defence Techniques
Learning martial arts and other self-defence techniques is one of the most recommended methods to end sexual harassment against women in society, which doesn't only help to reduce the disruption of sexual assault but also increases self-confidence in girls.However, we shouldn't forget that not all women have access to or can't afford to learn martial arts or other self-defence techniques because it's coaching is too expensive, especially for those who belong to the middle class and lower class, but it doesn't mean that they can't learn self-defence. There are several online videos and tutorials available on Youtube which is free of cost.
Additionally, if you already know martial arts you can also teach others. By doing this you'll not only simply build a community but also encourage girl power and women empowerment.
But some females are active in the office field nowadays which means that they won't be able to invest their time to learn self-defence like my elder cousin sister is a Bank Manager and she returns home at night, so I have taught her some basic self-defence techniques which you can learn in a short period, such as target your opponent's weak points like kick between their legs, poke in their eyes by fingers, punch on their throat by force, punch on their nose by force etc. but carefully because those tricks that I mentioned in this blog with that you can kill them because these tricks are extremely painful.
So, keep in mind that your aim should be self-defence is to protect oneself, not to harm the attacker.
3). Educate the Youth
Educating the youth can help prevent rape in several ways. By teaching young people about consent, healthy relationships, and respect for others, we can promote a culture of respect and reduce the likelihood of assault. Additionally, educating young people about the legal consequences of rape and sexual assault can help deter potential perpetrators. By encouraging bystander intervention and teaching young people how to recognize and respond to concerning behaviours, we can also empower them to intervene and prevent an assault from occurring.By taking these steps no doubt that we can definitely prevent rape culture and stereotypes from our society by roots throw away.
4). Never Lose Your Confidence When You Approached by a Group of Strangers at Night
Imagine you're a working woman and return home late at night, and suddenly you are encountered by a group of boys or bullies who try to do inappropriate behaviour with you. At that time, what would be your reaction? You'll be scared and find yourself helpless. Isn't it?But in that situation, do not lose your confidence because your fear does nothing but works to motivate them to scare you. When you are scared, their courage increases, and they try to scare you more.
5). Combat Gender and Consent Stereotypes
Combating gender and consent stereotypes is an important step in preventing rape and other forms of sexual violence. This is because harmful attitudes and beliefs about gender and consent can contribute to a culture that normalizes and excuses sexual violence. That's why we must simultaneously combat gender and consensual stereotypes, such as challenging harmful beliefs, building supportive communities, bystander intervention, and more.In short, by combating gender and consent stereotypes, we can help create a culture that values consent, promotes healthy relationships, and prioritizes the safety and well-being of all individuals, reducing rape. And the incidence of other types of assault may decrease.
6). Never Accept Lift From Strangers
This is a common safety message and caution that emphasizes the importance of being cautious and aware of potential risks when interacting with strangers, particularly when it comes to accepting rides from people you do not know because accepting a ride from a stranger can put you at risk of harm, particularly if that person has harmful intentions. If you know you'll need a ride somewhere, try to plan and make arrangements in advance. This could mean arranging for a ride with a friend or family member or scheduling a ridesharing service ahead of time. As an alternative, you can use public transportation. If you do find yourself in a situation where you need to walk or travel alone, be sure to stay aware of your surroundings and trust your instincts. If something doesn't feel right, trust your gut and immediately take steps to protect yourself.7). Be Careful With the Drinks You Receive From Strangers
When a stranger offers you a drink, never accept it, even if it's your friend or classmate. Because anyone can drug you through your drinks, and in that case, you won't be able to protect yourself from the danger. So be careful whenever you are joining parties and clubs.
If you sense that you are in danger or already a victim of sexual assault, file your complaint on https://ncwapps.nic.in/ website or you can call one of these numbers "Women Helpline (All India) - Women In Distress: 1090 / 1091", "Women Helpline Domestic Abuse: 181".
However, it is futile as the government is not even listening to our wrestlers, let alone common girls.
8). Stop Joking on Rape
Whenever we hear the news about rape, some people make jokes about such a terrific issue without understanding what the situation is. Some people may make these jokes out of ignorance or a lack of understanding of the gravity and impact of sexual violence. In some cases, people may make these jokes to reinforce societal attitudes that trivialize or normalize assault or as a way to assert power over those who have been victimized. It is crucial to recognize that jokes about rape are harmful and contribute to a culture that perpetuates gender-based violence. We've to stop this attitude immediately if we truly want rape free world.
9). Speak up against rape jokes or victim-blaming among friends and family
If you hear someone you know making a joke about rape or blaming a victim of sexual assault, you should speak up and challenge them. It's important to hold people accountable for their harmful attitudes and behaviours, even if they are friends or family members. By calling out this behaviour, you are sending a message that rape culture is not acceptable and that it is important to treat survivors of sexual assault with respect and compassion. It can also encourage others to speak up when they hear similar comments, which can help to create a culture that is more supportive and protective of survivors. Remember the Hathrash case? Can you tell me how many people were stand in support of that girl's family? None of us, isn't it?
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However, it's important to approach these situations with sensitivity and care, as some people may not be aware of the impact of their words or may feel defensive when confronted.
10). Break the Cycle of Impunity of Criminals
Breaking the cycle of impunity of criminals is an essential step in addressing and overcoming rape culture. Just because criminals have the money, political support and power to manipulate laws, they can easily escape punishment. To break the cycle of impunity of criminals, it is essential to strengthen laws and regulations related to assault and harassment, provide resources and support for survivors, and ensure that perpetrators are brought to justice through a fair and transparent legal process. This may involve improving the capacity of law enforcement agencies and the judiciary to effectively investigate and prosecute gender-based violence cases, providing training and education to judges and prosecutors on the nuances of assault and trauma, and providing resources and support for survivors of sexual violence and harassment. Same as we can see in the example of Brij Bhushan, how Wrestlers make allegations against him, and he is still free.
11). Never Take Drinks Under the Pressure of Your Peer or Friends
Be aware and alert whenever you are with your friends at parties, discos and clubs or bars because it is normal when your friends force you to drink, even if you don't like to drink, never drink. Even if it hurts your friends.
12). Stand in Support of the Victim
We should support rape victims instead of satire on them or raising a finger at their characters. But it is a shame that whenever a girl or woman becomes the victim of sexual harassment, instead of supporting them, our society points fingers at their character and clothes, and the family members stop her from going out of the house. In the end, they commit suicide.
13). Combat Rape Culture Through Societal Change
Rape culture is pervasive in our society, and it's up to all of us to combat it. But how can we do that? The answer lies in societal change. We need to work together to challenge and change the attitudes and beliefs that contribute to rape culture.
To combat rape culture, it is necessary to address the underlying attitudes and beliefs that contribute to it. This requires a concerted effort to challenge and change the way we think and talk about sexual violence, gender, power, and consent instead of victim blaming slut shaming, and the trivialization of sexual assault.
One important step we can take in combatting rape culture is to promote healthy and respectful attitudes towards sexuality and relationships. This includes teaching young people about the importance of consent and respecting boundaries, and challenging harmful stereotypes and gender roles. For example, my niece is 5 years old right now and I keep teaching her about her personal boundaries from time to time and believe me once she is a bit older I'll definitely teach her self defence techniques so she can defend herself from the danger of molestation etc. I've already taught her some basic tricks, such as fist-pumping and kicking etc.
But keep in mind that it won't be as easy as we think and won't happen overnight. But we can make a difference by working together to create a society that values and respects all individuals, regardless of gender or sexual orientation.
14). Encourage Respectful Relationships Everywhere
Encouraging respectful relationships everywhere can help prevent rape by promoting a culture of mutual respect, consent, and communication. When people are taught to value and respect others' boundaries, it creates an environment where sexual assault is less likely to occur. Additionally, when we challenge harmful stereotypes and gender roles, we can reduce the power imbalances that often contribute to sexual violence. By promoting healthy and respectful relationships in all areas of life, we can work towards creating a society where rape is no longer tolerated or normalized.
In other words, we have to teach boys how to respect others and their boundaries. We've to teach them how to respect girls.
15). Advocate for Laws and Policies that Protect Survivors and Hold Perpetrators Accountable
Advocating for better laws and policies that protect survivors of sexual violence and hold perpetrators accountable can help stop rape in several ways, such as stronger laws and policies can provide a clear definition of what constitutes sexual assault, making it easier to prosecute offenders, stronger laws can increase the penalties for sexual assault, acting as a deterrent to potential offenders, better policies can improve access to justice for survivors etc.
To summarize, advocating for better laws and policies that protect survivors of sexual violence and hold perpetrators accountable is an important step in stopping rape. It can improve access to justice, act as a deterrent to potential offenders, and contribute to a culture that values and respects all individuals, regardless of gender or sexual orientation.
16). Promote the Use of Inclusive Language that does not Perpetuate Harmful Stereotypes or Perpetuate Rape Culture
To address this issue, firstly we must promote the use of inclusive language that does not perpetuate harmful stereotypes or rape culture. By promoting the use of inclusive language, we can challenge these harmful attitudes and beliefs. This means avoiding language that perpetuates harmful stereotypes about gender, such as "boys will be boys" or "women are emotional". Because language is a powerful tool, the words we use can mentally disturb victims. For example, using language that implies that sexual assault is the victim's fault or that trivializes sexual violence can contribute to a culture that normalizes and excuses rape.
Just like recently a female wrestler said in her statement how Brij Bhushan Singh used to torture them mentally.
In short, promoting the use of inclusive language is an important step in preventing rape culture. It can help challenge harmful attitudes and beliefs, promote respect and empathy, and create a culture that values and respects all individuals.
17). Promote a Culture of Consent in all Areas of Your Life
Promoting a culture of consent in all areas of your life means encouraging a mindset and behaviour of seeking and obtaining explicit consent before engaging in any activity or conduct that may impact others. This may include sexual and non-sexual activities, such as asking for permission before sharing someone's personal information, hugging or touching someone, or engaging in sexual activity etc. This promotes mutual respect, safety, and autonomy for all parties involved. It is particularly important in sexual situations, where consent is crucial for preventing sexual violence and assault.
In other words, "Promoting a culture of consent involves actively advocating for consent, educating yourself and others on what consent means, and modelling respectful and consensual behaviour in your actions. It also means recognizing and challenging attitudes and behaviours that contribute to non-consensual behaviour, such as victim-blaming or minimizing the impact of sexual violence."
However, I believe that by promoting a culture of consent in all areas of our lives we can help create a safer and more respectful society where everyone's autonomy and safety are valued and protected.
18). Promote healthy relationships based on trust, communication, and mutual respect
Trust is a fundamental aspect of healthy relationships. It involves having confidence in the reliability, integrity, and honesty of others and feeling secure in the knowledge that they will keep their commitments and respect boundaries. Communication involves actively listening to others and expressing oneself clearly and honestly, which can help build understanding and prevent misunderstandings. Mutual respect means acknowledging and valuing the opinions, feelings, and boundaries of others, even when they differ from your own.
Promoting healthy relationships that are based on trust, communication, and mutual respect involves modelling these behaviours and attitudes in our relationships, as well as encouraging others to do the same. This can involve advocating for open and honest communication, encouraging active listening, respecting boundaries, and addressing conflicts constructively and respectfully.
Healthy relationships based on trust, communication, and mutual respect provide a foundation for personal growth and well-being, as well as social and emotional support.
By promoting and cultivating healthy relationships in our lives and communities, we can help create a more positive and fulfilling society.
19). Encourage men to take an active role in preventing sexual violence.
Encouraging men to take an active role in preventing sexual violence is an important step towards creating a culture that does not tolerate such behaviour. Historically, men have often been viewed as the perpetrators of sexual violence. While it is true that most perpetrators of sexual violence are men but it is crucial to recognize that not all men are responsible for sexual violence.
Men can play a crucial role in preventing sexual violence by speaking out against it, challenging harmful attitudes and behaviours, and holding other men accountable for their actions. This can involve having open and honest conversations with other men about the importance of consent, respect, and healthy relationships. It can also mean intervening when they witness problematic behaviour or supporting survivors of sexual violence.
However, it is the foremost step to involve men in the conversation about sexual violence prevention and to work towards creating a culture in which everyone is responsible for ending sexual violence.
20). Support the inclusion of sexual violence prevention education in school curricula
Supporting the inclusion of sexual violence prevention education in school curricula is an important step towards creating a culture that actively works to prevent sexual violence. Sexual violence prevention education can encompass a range of topics, including healthy relationships, consent, bystander intervention, and how to recognize and respond to sexual violence.
By including sexual violence prevention education in school curricula, we can provide young people with the tools and knowledge they need to recognize and prevent sexual violence. This education can also help to break down harmful attitudes and beliefs that contribute to a culture that normalizes and excuses sexual violence.
It is important to note that sexual violence prevention education should not be limited to high school or college students. It is never too early to start teaching young children about healthy relationships, boundaries, and consent. By starting these conversations early, we can help to shape attitudes and behaviours around sexuality and relationships that are respectful and non-violent.
In addition to providing young people with the tools they need to prevent sexual violence, sexual violence prevention education can also help to create a more supportive environment for survivors of sexual violence. When students are educated about sexual violence and know how to respond to disclosures of sexual violence, survivors are more likely to feel supported and less likely to be blamed or stigmatized.
To sum up, promoting the integration of sexual harassment prevention programs in school curricula is a crucial step towards creating a culture that actively works to prevent sexual violence and supports survivors. But it's also crucial to keep in mind that sexual violence prevention education should not be started too early since they're in their developing stage.
21). Promote media literacy and challenge harmful messages and images that perpetuate rape culture
Promoting media literacy involves encouraging individuals to develop critical thinking skills that enable them to question and challenge harmful messages and images perpetuating rape culture. This can include workshops, training sessions, and online resources that teach individuals how to analyze and deconstruct media messages. Before trusting what news channels show ensure that it is not misinformation, do a little research on the internet once and see that there is no loophole in what the media is telecasting because it shows anything nowadays just for TRP, and we believe in it like a fool. All in all, promoting media literacy and challenging harmful messages and images is an important step towards combating rape culture and creating a more inclusive and equitable society.
22). Educate yourself about what rape culture is and how it manifests in different contexts
To combat rape culture, it is important to educate oneself about what it is and how it manifests in different contexts. This means becoming aware of the subtle and not-so-subtle ways in which harmful attitudes and behaviors are perpetuated, and actively challenging and resisting them. Some ways to educate oneself about rape culture include reading and researching the topic, seeking out survivor narratives and testimonies, and engaging in conversations with others who are working to combat it. Moreover, provide help and support to the survivors through NGOs working for them.
23). Use media and popular culture to promote healthy attitudes about sex and relationships
The media, including movies, TV shows, music, and social media, has a significant impact on the way people perceive and understand relationships, sex, and consent. Unfortunately, many forms of media have been known to perpetuate harmful attitudes and behaviours, including those related to rape culture. However, media can also be used as a powerful tool to promote healthy attitudes and conducts regarding sex and relationships. Here Bollywood plays a significant role to promote rape culture through its item songs that objectify women are sexual objects to be consumed by men and they also glorify stalking and other forms of harassment as romantic gestures even if it's a family show. Taking everything into account, using media and popular culture including Bollywood movies to promote healthy attitudes about sex and relationships can be an effective way to combat rape culture and promote a culture of consent and respect.
24). Create safe and inclusive spaces where survivors of sexual violence can feel comfortable, sharing their stories and seeking support
Creating safe and inclusive spaces is an essential step in combating rape culture and supporting survivors of sexual violence. It involves establishing physical and emotional environments where survivors can feel safe and supported to share their stories and seek help. To put it simply, by creating safe and inclusive spaces, we can help survivors of sexual violence feel seen, heard, and supported, and work to break down the barriers that perpetuate rape culture and victim-blaming.
25). Promote policies and initiatives that prioritize the needs and rights of survivors of sexual violence
Promoting policies and initiatives that prioritize the needs and rights of survivors of sexual violence is an important step towards combating rape culture. This involves advocating for and implementing policies and programs that prioritize the safety, well-being, and dignity of survivors. Here're some examples of policies and initiatives that can be promoted including increased funding for sexual assault prevention and response programs, increased access to survivor-centred health care and mental health services, and the development and implementation of survivor-centred and trauma-informed practices within institutions and organizations.
In summary, promoting policies and initiatives that prioritize the needs and rights of survivors of sexual violence is a dominant way to create systemic change and work towards a culture that supports and empowers survivors.
26). Encourage the Development of policies and practices that support survivors of sexual violence in the criminal justice system
Encouraging the development of policies and practices that support survivors of sexual violence within the criminal justice system can help ensure that they receive the justice and support they need.
There are several ways in which policies and practices can be developed to better support survivors of sexual violence in the criminal justice system, such as improving access to legal services and support for survivors. This includes providing legal aid and advocacy services to survivors, as well as ensuring that they are informed of their legal rights and options throughout the criminal justice process.
Ultimately, encouraging the development of policies and practices that support survivors of sexual violence in the criminal justice system is essential to ensure that survivors receive the justice and support they need, and to help prevent future incidents of sexual violence.
27). Advocate for the Implementation of Trauma-Informed Care Practices for Survivors of Sexual Violence.
When it comes to survivors of sexual violence, trauma-informed care practices prioritize the survivor's needs and experiences, and seek to create a safe and supportive environment that facilitates healing and recovery. This involves recognizing and responding to the unique needs and challenges of survivors, such as providing emotional support, respecting their autonomy and choices, and ensuring confidentiality and privacy. To sum up, advocating for the implementation of trauma-informed care practices for survivors of sexual violence can help ensure that survivors receive the support and care they need to heal and recover from the trauma they have experienced. It can also help to break down the barriers that perpetuate rape culture and victim-blaming by prioritizing the needs and well-being of survivors.
28). Improve the Justice System
In our justice system, several loopholes should be fixed at any cost as soon as possible, such as corrupt officers, and a lot of political support from perpetrators etc. because improving the justice system is an essential step in combating rape culture and supporting survivors of sexual violence. It involves identifying and addressing the systemic barriers that prevent survivors from accessing justice, holding perpetrators accountable for their actions, and promoting a more victim-centred approach to justice.
In short, improving the justice system is an important component of a comprehensive approach to preventing sexual violence and supporting survivors. It can help to ensure that perpetrators are held accountable for their actions, survivors receive the support they need to heal and recover, and society as a whole begins to shift away from the attitudes and beliefs that contribute to rape culture.
29). Hold Abusers Accountable for Their Actions
Holding abusers accountable involves challenging the culture of impunity that has often allowed perpetrators to escape consequences and instead shifting the focus towards the protection of survivors and prevention of future acts of violence. Accountability can be achieved in a number of ways, including through criminal prosecution, civil lawsuits, and workplace or educational sanctions. It is important that abusers face consequences for their actions not only to punish them for the harm they have caused but also to deter future instances of sexual violence.
Considering all factors, it is main to note that holding abusers accountable is not only the responsibility of law enforcement or legal systems. Communities, organizations, and individuals can also play a prime role in creating a culture of accountability.
30). Conclusion
In conclusion, I'd just like to say rape culture is a widespread problem that requires forward-thinking and consistent efforts to combat. The 30 proactive ways outlined in this article are just some of the many ways we can work towards a safer and more equitable society for all. By promoting education and awareness, advocating for policy changes, and supporting survivors of sexual violence, we can all play a role in dismantling rape culture and creating a world where everyone can live free from fear and harm. Remember, it is up to all of us to take action and generate positive change in our communities.
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